The Epistle to the Ephesians
Lesson 9
Paul's Second Great Prayer in Ephesians
Ephesians 3:14-21

Introduction
God blessed us by giving us two outstanding prayers by the Apostle Paul in one short Epistle. Since all Scripture is given by the inspiration of God (2 Timothy 3:16), we must conclude that God led Paul to include these two prayers to teach and advise us.

In this lesson we will examine the truths contained in Paul’s second prayer (Ephesians 3:14-21). In lesson 4 we considered Paul’s first prayer (Ephesians 1:15-23). This prayer was addressed to the God of our Lord Jesus Christ (Ephesians 1:17), the beginning of all wisdom and knowledge. Paul prayed that God would give us wisdom concerning three things:

1. that we might know what is the hope of God’s calling.
2. what are the riches of the glory of his inheritance in the saints.
3. what is the exceeding greatness of his power toward us who believe.

In this lesson we will study the truths we find in Paul’s second prayer. This prayer is addressed to the Father of our Lord Jesus Christ (Ephesians 3:14), who is the beginning of every kind of love. This love includes love for our family. Paul stresses our need to be “rooted and grounded in love” (Ephesians 3:17), so that we might be able to understand the love of God (Ephesians 3:19).

Importance of this Lesson

• As in Lesson 4, we are again taught how to pray and what to pray for. It is important that we should pray one for another to have wisdom and understanding concerning Christ, the hope of His calling, and the glory of His inheritance in the saints.
• It is important also that we should pray one for another that we be so rooted in love that we will be able to understand the breadth, length, depth, and height of the love of God.
• It is also very important to realize that in both prayers Paul has in mind the fulfillment of God’s eternal purpose for all who put their faith in Christ (Ephesians 1:11; 3:14).

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The Lesson

I. Ephesians 3:14 – “For this cause I bow my knees unto the Father of our Lord Jesus Christ”

1. For this cause
   1. For what did Paul pray? What was his burden?
      In Paul’s first prayer, Ephesians 1:17-19, his burden is represented by three “whats.”
      1. What is the hope of God’s calling?
      2. What are the riches of the glory of His inheritance in the saints?
      3. What is the exceeding greatness of His power?
   2. In this second prayer, which we are now studying, Paul’s great burden is expressed by four“ thats."
      1. That God would grant you according to the riches of his glory, to be strengthened with might by His Spirit in the inner man (Ephesians 3:16).
      2. That Christ might dwell in your hearts by faith (Ephesians 3:17).
      3. That you might be able to comprehend what is the breadth, length, depth, and height and to know the love of Christ (Ephesians 3:18-19).
      4. That you might be filled with all the fullness of God (Ephesians 3:19).
2. I bow my knees unto the Father of our Lord Jesus Christ.
   1. There is no specific command in the Bible that we must kneel to pray, but there are many stories about people who kneel to pray and to worship God.
      Illustrations:
      1. Jesus kneeled down and prayed (Luke 22:41).
      2. Daniel kneeled to pray three times a day (Daniel 6:10).
      3. Stephen kneeled and cried with a loud voice (Acts 7:60).
      4. The Psalmist cried, “let us kneel before the Lord our maker” (Psalms 95:6).
      5. Peter kneeled down and prayed (Acts 9:40).
      6. “At the name of Jesus, every knee should bow” (Philippians 2:10).
   2. Kneeling is an act of worship, and seems like the correct position for prayer.
   3. We are to “pray without ceasing” (1 Thessalonians 5:17). This means that we pray in many different positions throughout the day, but when deeply burdened and extremely concerned, we usually drop to our knees.
3. Unto the Father of our Lord Jesus Christ
   1. Remember always that the God of the Bible is a triune (three-in-one) God – Father, Son, and Holy Spirit. All of them work together in perfect agreement with each other.
   2. God the Father sent His Son Jesus into the world (John 20:21), that the world through Him might be saved (John 3:17).
   3. The Holy Spirit brought Christ into existence in the womb of Mary through a miracle (Matthew 1:18,20). When Christ became a man, He humbled Himself and he obeyed unto death, even the death of the cross (Philippians 2:7-8).
   4. Since Christ is the Son of God and He obeyed God, it was correct for Paul to call God the “Father of our Lord Jesus Christ.”

II. Ephesians 3:15 – “…of whom the whole family in heaven and earth is named”
It is just as correct to say “every” family. Since Heaven is included, the family of God probably includes the angels who are too many to count and who obey Him.
Every family includes:

• Those people who lived before the great flood.
• The families of the Old Testament fathers, Abraham, Isaac, and Jacob.
• The believing family of Israel.
• The great crowd of people that have made up the church since Pentecost.
• The people God will save in the future, during the Kingdom age of the reign of Christ.
  All have received or will receive life from the Father and all will share in that glorious future God has planned.

III. Ephesians 3:16 – “…that he would grant you according to the riches of his glory to be strengthened with might by his spirit in the inner man.”
Here we have the first of the four “thats":

1. Paul does not say, “out of the riches,” but “according to the riches.”
2. In Ephesians 3:8 Paul writes about the “unsearchable riches of Christ.” Christ’s riches are beyond measure or understanding.
3. The strength needed by the Ephesians, and for which Paul prays, comes from an endless source. This source is the riches of God’s glory. Therefore we should not hesitate to ask anything of the Lord. His riches have no end.
4. The Holy Spirit gave the Christians in Ephesus the power they needed.
5. This power is needed in the “inner man.”
6. The “inner man” is the “born again man.” Every believer in Christ possesses the “inner man.” It is that which was born in us by the Holy Spirit when we repented of our sins and received Christ (John 3:5). It is that new man we are to put on (Colossians 3:10). It is that man which was newly created in us when we believed (2 Corinthians 5:17). It is this “new man,” this “new creation,” this “born again man,” this “new life” we have in Christ that Paul calls the “inner man.” Paul prays that this “inner man” will be strengthened with power by the Holy Spirit according to the riches of His glory. Those riches are without end. The power to live the Christian life is not in us. The power is from the Holy Spirit.

IV. Ephesians 3:17 – “…that Christ may dwell in your hearts by faith…”
This is the second “that.”

1. What a remarkable thing it is to realize that Christ, who is the Creator of all things (Colossians 1:16), actually lives in the believer’s heart (Galatians 2:20). He is the Son of the living God. He rose from the dead and God glorified him.
2. Christ is not someone who checks on you now and then to see how well you are getting along. He is more than an honored guest. When you receive him:
   1. He comes in to stay. He comes to live in us forever and ever (John 14:23). He becomes our life (Colossians 3:4). God gives us eternal life and that life is Christ (1 John 5:11). He becomes“Christ in you, the hope of Glory” (Colossians 1:27).
   2. Paul prays that we will have the faith to make this glorious truth real in our lives. Christ lives in me. Praise God. Salvation is received by grace through faith alone (Ephesians 2:8).

V. Ephesians 3:17-19 – “…that ye, being rooted and grounded in love, may be able to comprehend with all saints what is the breadth, length, depth and height, and to know the love of Christ, which passeth knowledge.”
Here is the third “that.”

1. …rooted and grounded in love
   What did Paul mean? He meant that our love for Christ should be like a great tree with roots running deep into the earth. We receive spiritual food from the wells of living water (John 4:10, 7:38;
   Psalm 1:3). He meant also that we must establish our love firmly like a mighty wall or a great building, like the house of which Christ spoke that was built on a rock (Luke 6:48).
2. Ephesians 3: 18 – Paul’s desire for us was that our love be so real, so deep, so strong, “that we might be able to comprehend, with all the saints, what is the breadth, and length, and depth, and height, and to know the love of Christ which passeth knowledge.”
   1. The four measurements named here are not at all subject to controversy but they have stirred up a wide variety of opinions among the finest conservative Bible teachers. I will share three of the positions and then I will give my own thought of what these measurements mean.
      1. Some feel that the measurements speak about the unknowable love of Christ. His love knows no limits. His love is eternal. His love reaches down to the greatest sinner. His love covers the entire world, and reaches to the heights of glory.
      2. Some believe the measurements are a reference to the cross of Christ. One can easily see the breadth of Calvary – Christ died for all human beings. The length of Calvary – Christ paid, for all eternity, the debt that we owed. The depth of Calvary – Christ’s work included the worst of sinners. The height of Calvary – because of it we have been raised up and made to sit together with him “in the heavenlies” (Ephesians 2:6).
      3. The view of another Bible teacher is similar but with small differences. He believes that the “breadth” refers to the arms of Christ, which reach around the world. “Him that cometh to me I will in no wise cast out” (John 6:37); “I am the door...if any man enter in”
         (John 10:9). He believes that the “length” begins with the “lamb…slain before the foundation of the world” (Revelation 13:8), and continues through the endless ages of eternity. For Him the “depth” is a reference to the cross. “Christ was obedient unto death…”
         (Philippians 2:8). The “height” refers to the throne of God on which Christ is seated (Revelation 3:21).
      • All three ideas are the best opinions of fine, godly men. If you wish to accept one of these views as correct, you may do so. Your grade will not suffer.
   2. I have chosen to accept the opinion of other fine Bible teachers who have a completely different opinion of these measurements – and for these reasons:
      1. The word “and” in Ephesians 3:19 makes the love of Christ a completely different matter. The word “and” separates the love of Christ from the measurements and restricts it to the word “know.”
      2. Throughout Ephesians, one thing is most important in the mind and in the heart of Paul. It is God’s eternal purpose for both Christ and the Church. Read again Ephesians 1:9-14. Note especially Ephesians 3:9 and 11. Then look again closely at Ephesians 3:8-12, especially verse 11.
      3. You will quickly note that God’s eternal purpose for Christ and the Church is mentioned just before Paul’s two wonderful prayers.
   3. What Paul had in mind in the four measurements was God’s eternal purpose. (Learn the meaning of each word for the exam.)
      1. The breadth
         Ephesians shows us God’s eternal purpose. It now accepts Jews as well as Gentiles. Paul is concerned that “all saints” (Ephesians 3:18) will be able to comprehend the breadth of God’s purpose for the Church “in Christ” (Ephesians 3:10-11).
      2. The length
         God’s purpose in Christ extends from the beginning of the ages (Ephesians 3:9), even before the foundation of the world (Ephesians 1:4; 1 Peter 1:19-20), and reaches to the dispensation of the “fullness of times” (Ephesians 1:10). God never revealed this distance about any other people but the body of Christ – the Church.
      3. The depth
         This refers to the awful sinful condition from which God’s grace took both Jews and Gentiles (Ephesians 2:1-5,8,10). Ephesians reveals both the depth of human sinfulness and the heights of God’s glory and purpose.
      4. The height
         From breadth, length, and depth, Paul now refers us to the greatest glory in Ephesians. The height is the “heavenly places” or “heavenlies,” the realm and place to which God calls every believer, the place God will show us in the future (Ephesians 1:3,20; 2:6)
      • Paul expects us to understand these measurements (Ephesians 3:18). I believe since we cannot understand God’s love completely (Ephesians 3:19), these measurements must, in my opinion, refer to God’s eternal purpose for Christ and His Church

VI. Ephesians 3:19 – “…and to know the love of Christ, which passeth knowledge, that ye might be filled with all the fullness of God…”
This is the fourth “that.”

1. It looks like we have a biblical contradiction here. God asks us to understand the truths that no one can understand. No man can completely understand the full measure of God’s love because it is endless. God’s love has no boundaries. We can still enjoy God’s love. We can feel God’s love, and know that it is real. Why? How?
   1. God poured out His love in our hearts through the Holy Spirit (Romans 5:5).
   2. God so loved us that He gave us “His only begotten Son” (John 3:16) and sent Him to become “the propitiation (sacrifice) for our sins” (1 John 4:10). This sacrifice satisfied the demand of God against us.
   3. Galatians 5:22-23 lists nine things which make up the “fruit of the Spirit.” The first of these is love. Some teachers believe that the other eight things are only different way to show that love, which of course, is God’s love.
2. “…that ye might be filled with all the fullness of God…”
   To understand this amazing prayer request by the Apostle Paul we must become aware of and understand certain truths.
   1. When anyone receives Christ as Savior and Lord, God makes that person a new creation. That person is born again (John 1:12-13; 3:5-6; 1 Peter 1:23). The power that makes this action real is the power of the Holy Spirit (John 3:5-6). The Holy Spirit comes to live in our hearts permanently. The Holy Spirit causes our spirit to know that we are the children of God (Romans 8:16). In addition He makes Christ real to us (John 16:14-15) and He gives us power to serve Him (Acts 1:8).
   2. This last statement reveals another truth we must understand in order to grasp what Paul meant by the fullness of God. This truth is that when you are saved Christ Himself comes to live in your heart through the Holy Spirit (Galatians 2:20; Colossians 1:27; 3:4; 1 John 5:11-12).
   3. The third perhaps the most important truth to understand is that God, the true and living God, the God of the Bible, is a three-in-one God: Father, Son and Holy Spirit. The Bible does not teach that there are three Gods. It teaches that there is only one God who shows Himself in three ways, God the Father, God the Son and God the Holy Spirit. All three members of this three-in-one God work together in perfect harmony each having multiple responsibilities to fulfill. Concerning Christ, Colossians 2:9 says “For in Him dwelleth all the fullness of the Godhead bodily.” In other words, Christ is the only member of the Godhead who has a human form. Since all the fullness of God dwells in Christ and He dwells in us then the fullness of God is in us.
   4. We must never try to separate the Three-in-One God. All three work together as one wonderful God. If The Holy Spirit lives in us and fills us then all the fullness of God lives in us and fills us. If any member of the Three-in-One God lives in us then all three live in us and John correctly says “of his fullness have we all received” (John 1:16).

• O, how humble and thankful we should be for this glorious and inspiring truth. This is the truth that if we are born again believers, the fullness of God dwells in us. May God help us to take as our own the unsearchable riches of His power, grace and wisdom that He makes available to us.

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